![]() ![]() In fact, a study found that 72.1% of women fantasized about giving their man fellatio and 41.3% of women fantasized about a man ejaculating on them. Maybe you like the idea of swallowing his load too many women do. Another reason may be that he has seen it in a porno and wanted to try it out himself. ![]() And let’s be honest here, a lot of guys like to take the dominant role when having sex with you. One of the main psychological reasons why your man may want you to put your lips on his penis and swallow his load after cumming is that it’s both an erotic and submissive gesture. Listen to more Bad Girls Bible podcast episodes here Podcast: Orgasmic Oral Sex – 12 BJ Techniquesīefore continuing with the guide below, you may first want to listen to this podcast I recorded on how to give your man a blow job so powerful that he will cry out in pleasure. Then you'll learn how to have multiple vaginal and full body orgasms during sex and masturbation. It begins by teaching you the techniques to orgasm easily and consistently. This article originally appeared in the August/September 2018 print edition of BUST Magazine.Side note: If you are currently struggling to orgasm during sex or masturbation, then you may want to learn about the Easy Orgasm Solution. Got a sex or relationship question you need answered? Submit it here. This allows you to relax, play, be sensual, explore, and gain confidence in your body, which is the only kind of confidence that will help with a gag reflex.Ĭarol Queen’s latest book (written with Shar Rednour) is The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone. You, not your partner, should decide how far the penis goes into your mouth, the speed of the movement, and all the other little elements involved. Most of all, you need to be in charge during a blow job, unless you decide to get all 50 Shades of Throat Fuckery with your boo-but this is not a game I’d recommend for you yet. Anything that causes a dry mouth (including pot!) is likely to be an impediment. Have some water handy it can also help to slick up the cock with lube. This is easier to manage than trying to breathe out as the penis comes in, blocking the air.įinally, if your throat is at all dry, the friction of the penis-throat contact will be another gag trigger. When you breathe in, let the penis in control how far it enters you, especially at first, to give the gag reflex time to subside. One way to work with this tension is via deep breathing it relaxes you and opens your throat at the same time. Second, tension in your throat can lead to gagging. If you have gag reflex problems, never give a blow job with a partner kneeling over you-it’s just too hard to relax. Pay attention to the curve angle and try to match your throat accordingly. Kneeling in front of someone or between their legs mismatches this curve unless your person doesn’t have much of one, curves down instead of up, or is only semi-erect. But often when we give a blow job it’s face-to-dick, and the curves do not match up. If you want to add the fanfare that used to make you gag, here are a few technique tips.įirst, note that most penises curve, and your throat curves, too. ![]() If your person stops thrusting as if your mouth was interchangeable with a vagina or other orifice, you can take your time, lavish that part with attention, add more sensation via hand stroking, and give a stellar blow job. The most sensitive part of a penis is the head, especially around the coronal ridge. Instead, think about a blow job as more than just trying to get a dick as far down your throat as possible. I wouldn’t recommend numbing spray during sex and am not even sure this would do much good, since it’s not just the surface mucosa that’s responsible for gagging, and the spray wouldn’t affect the musculature below.
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